In order to "let go," or to forgive, the offending party needs to offer some type of apology or remorse for their actions IMHO. Rmk will never apologize, neither will pearl or Sampson. Hard to me to move on, although I don't let it consume me.I don't hold grudges in life, but I definitely hold grudges in sports. Bruce Pearl, Notre Dame football, the NY Yankees and IU b-ball are at the top of my list. I will never let those grudges go. It makes sports more interesting for me when I get to actively root against these teams, regardless of who their opponent is.