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If you want to pay someone to listen to your feelings, I am all for it. Me personally, I am going to do it here for freeI understand that we learn from history. So it's legitimate to reflect on what was done before, to learn from that and do better in the future. I also was a strong supporter of Lovie. I was greatly disappointed, and plainly just hurt and mad, about the results. It felt like he failed me personally. It's human nature to extract revenge, but that's where we can get carried away. I think at some point the criticism becomes no more than a surrogate for revenge. And piling on by others legitimizes our criticism in our minds.
But I just know when I do that it ends up not making me feel better, and usually worse.
I'm not any sort of expert about this stuff, just reflecting on my life experiences. But 5 cents paid to Lucy for an hour of therapy would probably be more worthwhile.