16 ex-Michigan hockey players sue over alleged sexual hazing
Fixed my typo. Auto correct at it again.It’s pretty clear that being a “Michigan man” means you care about nothing EXCEPT winning on the field. Nothing else matters, and your behavior in other areas of life doesn’t matter as long as you win on the field.
SHOCKED, I say, I am shocked!
Round up the usual suspects.
acceptance is the final stage of processing griefI have a young colleague (late 20s) who's a Michigan alum. Great guy, very smart, high human capital. We regularly talk college ball. I hadn't seen him all week until late Thursday. I asked him about his Labor Day weekend and he brought up the WMU game. There followed a long discussion of Michigan's serial, and seemingly unending, scandals. They obviously have a serious problem vetting hires in the AD and, generally, have had rocky leadership lately at the presidential level (Santa Ono was an exception until he bolted for Florida only to fail to get that job.) I hadn't heard about the latest scandal in hockey until he told me.
Money quote from my colleague: "We've got a real problem: an arrogant 'we're the best' attitude that doesn't bear scrutiny. It's embarrassing."
Money quote from my colleague: "We've got a real problem: an arrogant 'we're the best' attitude that doesn't bear scrutiny. It's embarrassing."
I respectfully disagree to an extent. Michigan as an institution (very high academic standards and programs of great reputation) stood out positively among universities for decades. I view its recent struggles as par for the course as every institution in American society has been corrupted and degraded over my lifetime, and particularly over the past ~30-40 years. Its Arts & Sciences college announced this summer an intent to eliminate grades for freshmen. (The provost in a meeting praised this as an effort to "blow up the transcript", i.e., to make academic achievement meaningless). This was done on the pretext of encouraging freshman to take risks in challenging courses. I believe that's cover for lower academic standards.My psychological/spiritual take on that:
When you project arrogance and superiority all the time this means you are actually masking and trying to compensate for a really weak internal (root) personality structure and you need constant propping-up and re-enforcement (and ‘Wins’ all the time). Your sense of self-worth depends on it. A loss crushes you and you don’t know how to tolerate it. You project superiority to hide your actual inferiority.
That is different from healthy competition and just seeing who is the better team that day. You can win or lose without becoming crushed inside and feeling worthless.
All of the College Programs-Of-Privilege exhibit these traits. Every one of them. The behavior is the same.
I view its recent struggles as par for the course as every institution in American society has been corrupted and degraded over my lifetime, and particularly over the past ~30-40 years.
Changed a word to make this even more relevant. The concept of civility and being able to accept a bad result and be resilient is not there anymore. This was creeping into society prior to mid-2015, but it's just gone into hyperdrive since that time. It's sad, and it's frustrating. Today, if you don't get your way, just scream loud and do whatever you think will make people think you're in the right. I don't know if we'll ever get back to a reasonable level of respect and civility unless those in leadership start to exhibit those behaviors again.Being a witness to all this generalized corruption of social structures of any kind is both upsetting and depressing. You can know and respect what an institution used to be – and then they become a degraded shadow of what that better state was.
This is reflected in society at all levels today. The NFL and other Leagues have ownership scandals as well as player ones. College ball has NIL chaos and magic time appearing on the game clock for favored programs and other problems. High school sports now has to deal with violent incidents that it did not use to. Even kids sports now see an adult running on to the field to stop a little kid from scoring a touchdown. Really? Is this what we have become?
Sports was supposed to be an oasis from the problems of real life. But now... problems have been steadily creeping into sports and taking away whatever innocence once existed. That is the Game Above The Game.