I lost my best friend 2 weeks ago. It just seems like I've lost so many over the years...
Yes you have. As we all do in the course of a lifetime.
We watch sports in part to share in something with others... and to see who wins and loses the given contest of the day.
Some things we don’t get to choose - like the family we were born in to and the place we were born. And other things we do get to choose - like the people we decide to commune with and what we do with our lives once we reach adulthood.
We get to choose our friends. And friends can add to our lives in ways that no one else can. And as for where we are born... for most people that will determine for the rest of their lives the sports teams we bond with and that will levy so much sway over our thoughts and emotions down through our years.
Like any group of fans... we in Illini Nation form a family and community of our own. We come to this fandom and this community willingly and a shared desire for good times and success through our chosen sports identity.
We share in the Game of the Day on the Venue of Play – to watch whichever team our chosen Beloved happens to be playing that day and to see what will happen. And then we share the much Greater Game of Life... where the victories and losses cut much deeper and with greater significance than National Championships.
Rejoice in the life and times you’ve had with your friend. Look ahead with joy and anticipation that there are much greater things ahead for him, for you, and for all of us.
And as much as we love the Illini and the other sports loyalties we take on – the greatest victories will not be found here but still lie just ahead.