That's all I could think of while reading your entire post. I'm not a Bills fan, but I've suffered through plenty of heartbreak from many teams across different sports/levels falling just short. I've been envious of the Marlins in that regard, though I know the grass is not greener over there.I badly want to see Illinois win a championship but living through the post 05 Weber era and groce era, plus being a white Sox and bulls fan(post Jordan).
I would rather see a team be consistently competitive than 1 championship run followed by 4 years of being terrible.
It's just more fun if your team is competitive and you can be invested in the season. It's not fun to be checked out by January.
I know they got over the hump eventually but I always jealous of the 2015-2020 Dodgers and how they basically went to the NLCS or WS every year. Yeah it's frustrating to not finish the job but you would also get 30+ months of fun baseball compared to the White Sox basically being irrelevant the entire time. Also, you have to trust that if your program/team is that competitive then they will eventually get over the hump(unless you're the bills).
It's obviously better to be relevant that terrible, but once you reach a certain point, a lack of a championship is a hard thing to get past.