Most guys on the court come from an environment where they are taught to never back down. A guy that back downs is bullied when off of the court. You must always stand up for yourself. Many here have no idea what has been said to these players. You want them to play intensely but, question their intelligence when they do. There are many reasons why guys have these problems that they are "T'd" for. You want them to fight back but, nicely. One can't simply turn one's emotions off and on like that. An athlete spends 2 or 3 days getting psyched up for an event and everyone wants him to be nice at a moment's notice. If a guy gets in your face, you can never just walk away. As one gets older, like 40 or 50 years of age, one can learn to walk away. Many times, during a game, a guy is being tested and there is a need to show an opposing player that he can't simply punk you. Still, these are 18, 19, and 20-year-old kids. Yes, there are some things that one simply has to ignore during a game but, that is not always the case. This board needs to learn to lighten up and learn to show the same maturity that is being demanded of these young men. My apologies for venting.