I’d argue it’s actually healthier to challenge authority/norms and move on if your ideologies don’t match up, rather than sticking around and putting up with crap.
I’d say a freer market for college athletes to transfer sets them up better for the real world rather than being chained to a school. It’s a tale as old as time—older generations bucking change from younger ones because of some antiquated philosophies. Just because they are young adults shouldn’t mean they don’t get the same privileges as their coaches and peers in the real world.
Freedom is a good thing. It was a long time coming to the college ball world. But it’s here and everyone will benefit in the long run.
Given the many players that will enter The Portal each year for various reasons after their freshman year and later... it’s time to ask a question: How do these guys real feel in the privacy of their own thoughts about their first year (or years) at the 'old' school? Probably get as many answers as there are players, but here are a few ideas...
1. ‘It was a mistake for me to choose (fill in the blank). I should have gone to (fill in the blank). It would have been better for me.”
2. ‘I’m glad I went to (fill in the blank). I got to learn from the coaches and my teammates and that will help me now as I begin my new career at (fill in the blank).
3. ‘That coach at (fill in the blank) just didn’t appreciate me. I should have gotten way more minutes. He made a big mistake.’
4. ‘That coach at (fill in the blank) taught me something. I didn’t show him enough. I’m gonna use that as motivation at (fill in the blank) and become a better player.’
5. 'I'm not sure if I'm making the right move but I've got to try something else. I wish I were more confident about this.'
6. 'I'm not sure if I'm making the right move but I've got to try something else. I have faith in myself to succeed anywhere.'
I hope the exit interview process is an extensive one for both player and coaching staff. Both sides will benefit going forward if everyone gets a better understanding of the dynamics of our new Transfer Portal Era ball experience. If we look deeper into this, we can learn a lot and make the system and the game itself better for everyone involved including the fans of the game.