Ok, so what's your argument? Are you done with the coach? Are you putting it on the players? Or all of the above?
Everything you mentioned above are players issues. You can scream, yell, threaten benching....all of it. However, you don't have an unlimited roster of players and it's guys you count on(Tomi), who are some of the main violators. Mirkovic's brutal game is well documented. No sense in beating that drum.
Ultimately, the players win and the players lose. I don't buy the crap that the coaches are 0-3 and the players are 8-0. It's a players game, especially when some are making $1M+. The voice of the table pounding coach is over. Guys will transfer mid season.
I think that the anger is misguided and your post is pretty much headed in the right direction. That said, the same is said for Nebraska and their shooting was disgustingly great.