Nah, Sky, I agree with you on a lot of things but not here. Many, many comments on this board have been general and, frankly, obtuse statements about rape accusations. I read more than a few posts about how this couldn't have occurred because, "someone they know wouldn't have reacted that way," or, "they can't possibly see how this could happen." That isn't virtue signaling and to be blunt, the whole "virtue signaling" thing is bulls$#!.
I don't think there is a single person on this board that doesn't wish for this for this incident to not have occurred. What many of us point out is that there have been a lot of gross statements here. I have said it before and I'll say it again: it is okay to want TJ to be innocent and not say awful things about the accuser or women in general.
For the most part I agree with you, and this brings back memories of the times I was a juror. While I know most people do anything they can to avoid jury duty, I personally think it's one of the most important and educational experiences one can ever hand, as you realize very quickly how fallible some of the jurors are to their own preconceived biases. I think the problem here is people are jumping to the end "verdict" and using that as their interpretation of intention, but there's more nuance than that.
What I mean by that is let's break it down question by question:
1. Is it possible that based on her account, the accuser was groped that night and sexually assaulted? In my opinion, yes, it's possible. It's a crowded bar, people have been drinking. This is not unheard of.
2. Is it possible the accuser froze, unable to move. Yes, it is not uncommon for someone quickly subjected to a traumatic event to freeze
3. Is it possible the accuser tried reconstructing the event, and tried doing her own investigation into who she remembered at the bar who was close to where this happened by looking up pictures of athletes, and trying to get an understanding of what constitutes sexual assault? I can absolutely see many people trying to do that.
So based on those 3 questions and answers, unless there's clear evidence that shows she purposefully filed this charge for ulterior motives, I think the "false" or "fraudulent" charge talk can be put to rest. However, this doesn't mean that her account can't be mistaken or that TSJ is wrongfully accused.
And if we ask similar questions regarding TSJ as the probable assailant based on her account
1. Did the accuser have a good look at the assailant? No. Per her own admission, it was a dark crowded bar and her back was turned. It's not unusual in sexual assault cases especially where drugs or alcohol are involved, the victim goes back to their most vivid memory from around the time of the event. In this case, per her words, the attractive man on the other end of the bar she was walking towards.
2. Is it probable TSJ was physically able to commit the crime as described? While it's possible, the logistics of it including his height and that he was already distracted with another woman on his arm makes this not only not probable but possibly even unlikely
3. Is there anyone else who could have had reasonable opportunity to assault the accuser at the time of the crime? Yes, her back was turned in a dark and crowded bar. Even if TSJ was in her most immediate vicinity, the people standing right next to them would have the opportunity, and there would be no easy way to distinguish who it was due to the visibility issue.
Based on those questions, it seems easily apparent that there is a lot of reasonable doubt that TSJ committed this crime if we take the accuser at their word. So from a verdict standpoint, unless additional information becomes available, it does appear that at worst TSJ is not guilty of all crimes, and it's not improbable he's innocent or did any wrongdoing whatsoever.
Really, unless there's any credible testimony or evidence we haven't seen yet, it's just an abuse of justice that TSJ was charged. But he sure wouldn't be the first black man in Kansas who would be able to say that...