I know this was for fun and it’s kind of run it’s course but I had a life realization yesterday for you parents of young kids. Feel free to scroll past. Absolutely zero Illini news in this one.
Because adult age is 18... ever really thought about how long your kids are ACTUALLY kids. I had the realization yesterday that kids are only in that true kid stage (that joyful, innocent one you think of) for about 10-11 years... It goes by quick. Don’t be like me and have that realization too late.
(No specific Illini news... just reacting here...)
As many observers of Life have long noted... one thing we have lost along the way is the whole notion of Innocence. Not just for our youngest but for everybody.
There is good Innocence and bad Innocence. Bad innocence is when you refuse to grow up and become an adult in meaningful ways. Being clueless. Doing wrong and knowing you are. Or worse, not knowing.
Good Innocence is not just for kids but for people of all ages and stages of Life. Pure. Simple. Joyful. Not complicated.
Good Innocence is never taking the ‘little’ things of Life for granted. Good Innocence is not letting the dark side of Life bring you down or poison your attitude about Life.
Life is not supposed to be just an endurance test. Life is not meant to be just doing routine things and wasting your life away on things that don’t bring you joy.
That’s one reason we like to find a sports team to ‘love’. This is our connection to our own Innocence. Our youth. Our fun place. Our connection to our feeling about the first good friends we ever made. Something ‘simple’ that we can share together in our pursuit of sports joy. Pursuit of wins. Achievement of successes.
Together not apart.
Kids are becoming adults very fast. Too fast. And in this process, an important stage of Life is being lost for them. Too quickly does the joy and innocence of Life give way to peer pressure, competition, conflict, attitudes-shaping from social media, and things that were meant to be faced later in their lives that are now being force-fed before anyone is ready for them.
It’s wonderful that you – IllinoisssssssVarsity – have had this realization. Maybe later than you wanted to, but it’s never a bad time.
Innocence goes by in a flash. Just like college careers of these young people who put on these uniforms and who also have grown up much faster than those who came before.
Look at some old photographs of college players in the 1950s. Look at the uniforms. Look at the small gyms. Look at the body types and size of the players. It’s like a whole different world.
Good college teams today would have no trouble at all competing and succeeding against the pro players from that era. And the pro players would stand there astonished at how big and how good these college guys from today are. Doing things they never even imagined doing back then.
We need to all stay Innocent. In the Good way.