This perfectly summarizes why some of us are so annoyed by some people lecturing us about the seriousness of the charge or that Illinois is a respected academic institution or that sexual assault victims didn’t receive justice 20 years ago … I’m not running for office! I’m not assembling a platform! I don’t care about anything but the facts in this case that we have available and whether or not they seem like enough to accuse TJ of such a serious offense. Personally, I think everyone here knows deep down that they do NOT seem like enough. And I’d wager some are doing some serious mental gymnastics and word salad just to painstakingly appear in a certain light on the *issue of sexual assault* or something, leading to condescending accusations that we are like “looking at this through O&B glasses.”
Each case is different. And so far, this case stinks to high Heaven. And nobody should be talked down to for coming to that (rather obvious IMO) conclusion here.
Let me try to say this without any word salad (brevity is not my strong suit): what I think is happening here is a classic case of "contextualizing" versus "decoupling" norms in argument. This is a concept I came across a year or two ago, and I see it so often now that I almost can't understand how I didn't realize it myself.
To define the terms, a quote (
source):
Decoupling norms: It is considered eminently reasonable to require your claims to be considered in isolation - free of any context or potential implications. An insistence on raising these issues despite a decoupling request are often seen as sloppy thinking or attempts to deflect.
Contextualising norms: It is considered eminently reasonable to expect certain contextual factors or implications to be addressed. Not addressing these factors is often seen as sloppy, uncaring or even an intentional evasion.
In other words, where you think you're being reasonable by just talking about the case, others perceive your refusal to address the social context or implications outside TSJ as an evasion, or showing lack of care about sexual violence. When they try to rationalize that, bias is an easy explanation.
By contrast, you suggest that others are performing mental gymnastics, when in reality, they have an expectation that these issues also bear addressing as part of the debate. When you try to rationalize that, "trying to appear in a certain light" is an easy explanation.
I don't believe there's a right or wrong style. I do think that society has been moving more towards contextualizing styles of debate for most of my adult life (can't recall if that's discussed in the link). And I think online debate has amplified opportunities for this mismatch to manifest as mistrust or hostility. Heck, even these TSJ threads might be a good case study in debate across two norms.
Meanwhile we are
all wearing Orange & Blue glasses. I respect that almost everyone here is doing their best to look around them, but we can't pretend like any of us are totally unbiased.