For one, that's absolutely not the same as the tone being employed here. I've never seen a cop call a car owner a "grade A dick" for failing to lock up their car. And if they did, they'd be wrong.
Second, the stupid "$h!t" that Michigan supposedly did was 1. Score points in a football game in a manner consistent with a team that wants to make the college football playoff and 2. Have a stadium that was designed in an inconvenient manner nearly 100 years ago. This is far more akin to "well, she should probably not have had so much to drink."
We all hate Michigan, myself included. That's what's going on here. But 100% of the blame in this scenario goes on the MSU players who cornered and attacked an opposing player, and if it weren't Michigan (or some other hated rival) that'd be the end of the discussion.