I don’t think anyone has a problem saying that false accusations are horrible. And when an accusation proves to be false, there should be harsh penalties. However, at least for me, it was you saying that false accusations happen 3x more than real accusations now. That is just not backed up by any legitimate studies and to say so is very misleading and dangerous. Especially if you truly are in the psych/counseling field and regularly deal with these situations, then you really need to better inform yourself as your involvement has real consequences.
Also, more generally, to everyone saying this was in a crowded bar, so any force would have been noticeable, any force used can be very subtle. In fact, in my understanding, it could have even just been the threat of force. So certainly doesn’t mean that people around would have noticed anything.
Nonetheless, none of us have really a substantial FACTS. We have plenty of rumors that may or not be true. But we certainly should not be jumping to any conclusions based on unsubstantiated rumors.
TSJ may be innocent. I certainly hope he is for all parties involved. But he may also be guilty. We just don’t know yet and to assume one way or the other at this point is inappropriate.